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My wife has spent some time as a vet tech and is licensed so she's

seen her fair share of vets. I'm completely unsurprised that your Daughter-in-law is oblivious to the golden rule. From all the stories my wife tells me, vets are almost universally bad at business and their practical knowledge can be limited. Is it really a big deal? No. Is it indicative of a lot of the vets my wife deals with...it seems that way.
Posted: 12/08/2025 at 10:21 AM ET
(In response to this post by Galenahokie)

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Am I being overly sensitive?
Galenahokie 12/08/25 09:32 AM ET
As a dentista who washed his hands often a few times on every patient the
DonHo-kieHi 12/09/25 01:55 AM ET
Was your financial contribution a gift, or a loan?
MP4VT2004 12/08/25 09:16 PM ET
It was an outright gift, no strings attached. Having read through all the
Galenahokie 12/08/25 09:58 PM ET
If your contributions are simply a gift, there should be no strings
Tank 12/08/25 06:25 PM ET
It was a gift. My purpose in getting the towel dispensers was simply to
Galenahokie 12/08/25 09:51 PM ET
Working in clean room environments, we are pretty picky about that type of
No Clue 12/08/25 02:53 PM ET
My take ...
Nova Hokie 95 12/08/25 02:51 PM ET
There sounds like things in her personality that will probably make her
Hokebury 12/08/25 12:30 PM ET
Giving is tougher then it seems. Learning to give without strings is tough
UTPr0sim 12/08/25 12:25 PM ET
nice humble brag, btw. 👍🏻**
B777Fr8Dog 12/08/25 11:49 AM ET
Thanks in part to all those sailboats I sold in the 80's & 90's**
Galenahokie 12/08/25 02:13 PM ET
You sound like a man that would appreciate what Axl Rose once said about
jdkhokie 12/08/25 11:08 AM ET
remind her politely to STFU and you can change them later if you like **
VT Pez4Life 12/08/25 11:01 AM ET
My question, did you consult her on what you ordered? If not...
vthhhi 12/08/25 11:00 AM ET
Depending on her tone and demeanor it might bother me too.**
HokieNoVA 12/08/25 10:49 AM ET
2 Thoughts from someone completely lacking a PHD in Psych.
Late 80s Hokie 12/08/25 10:39 AM ET
This. To be blunt, get over it. It is her business and she should be
KeithHokie89 12/08/25 11:57 AM ET
Has she been thankful for your contributions?**
BG Hokie 12/08/25 10:34 AM ET
Since it doesn't appear she's fluent in business practices, you should...
EDGEMAN 12/08/25 10:31 AM ET
My wife has spent some time as a vet tech and is licensed so she's
ElbertoHokie 12/08/25 10:21 AM ET
She is what she is. Bite down on the leather strap and move on. She owes
ColoVT82 12/08/25 10:09 AM ET
As a paper guy, I would have told you to have her find a supplier before
reestuart 12/08/25 09:58 AM ET
Scope of work. Everything is outlined in an agreement ahead of time so any
reconhokie 12/08/25 09:57 AM ET
My wife handles the babysitting detail!**
Galenahokie 12/08/25 10:31 AM ET
Maybe a little oversensitive but not entirely....
BleedinOandM 12/08/25 09:44 AM ET
You did all that and she only complained about the towel dispensers?
RhinoVT 12/08/25 09:44 AM ET