About 5 each but daughter's were during covid
Middle kid really had no idea about college. All he knew is he wanted to swim, play water polo, and study mechanical engineering with swimming and ME being the two most important. He had official visits to five schools. He was not interested in going places just for the visit, which is totally his personality. He went to the last school he visited, a small midwestern school in the snow belt. It was 13 degrees and snowing. He loved it and enjoyed every minute he was there and got all three things he wanted.
#3 had a wide array of schools recruiting her to swim, and she narrowed it down to about 6. Due to covid, a number of the visits were us taking her to campus and looking around and virtual tours. Only one school had a real on-campus tour. That coach also gave a virtual tour that was him walking around the facilities on a Zoom call. That school was where she eventually went to, and we almost didn't even go on the visit. That said, he ultimately chose the school that he felt had his academic success most important.
You need to get out and see the different schools to get a feel for them. I believe that more than 5 or 6 is excessive and just creates more noise in the decision and is also not cost effective. I know people whose kids applied to 14 schools. That in itself is excessively expensive.
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Those of you with kids in or past college. How many schools did you visit
-- Late 80s Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 08:36 AM ET
Late 80s Hokie
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08/23/23 08:36 AM ET
Son got recruiting letters from Ivy’s cause of Board Scores. Did a trip to
-- DonHo-kieHi
Aug 23, 2023 at 10:15 PM ET
DonHo-kieHi
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08/23/23 10:15 PM ET
I went to 2, ex-SO went to 2. Daughter visited 1 on her own (school flew
-- VermontHokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 12:47 PM ET
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08/23/23 12:47 PM ET
And as a special response to you, my daughter's #1 at the moment is UVM
-- Late 80s Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 01:08 PM ET
Late 80s Hokie
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08/23/23 01:08 PM ET
Ha, this is one of the others we might visit
-- North Main Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 02:01 PM ET
North Main Hokie
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08/23/23 02:01 PM ET
Look into the flights a little more. SHOCKINGLY, when we were on campus
-- Late 80s Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 05:01 PM ET
Late 80s Hokie
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08/23/23 05:01 PM ET
I’m having a flashback
-- North Main Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 10:40 PM ET
North Main Hokie
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08/23/23 10:40 PM ET
5...both ended up going to the same school however....**
-- Hokebury
Aug 23, 2023 at 12:31 PM ET
Hokebury
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08/23/23 12:31 PM ET
3-4 per kid, all in-state except one**
-- WestyHokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 12:01 PM ET
WestyHokie
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08/23/23 12:01 PM ET
Kinda forced my oldest to visit several
-- Hokie Fiji
Aug 23, 2023 at 11:46 AM ET
Hokie Fiji
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08/23/23 11:46 AM ET
No official visits, just unofficial away football game visits. Nothing
-- UEMcGill
Aug 23, 2023 at 11:46 AM ET
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08/23/23 11:46 AM ET
We're in the midst of this and are up to 10-12
-- North Main Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 10:57 AM ET
North Main Hokie
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08/23/23 10:57 AM ET
Only to the extent that misery loves company! :-)**
-- Late 80s Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 11:35 AM ET
Late 80s Hokie
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08/23/23 11:35 AM ET
We did 11 schools scattered over 3 states. VT was the winner**
-- Sportn
Aug 23, 2023 at 10:55 AM ET
Sportn
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08/23/23 10:55 AM ET
11. My daughter (HS Class of 08), gave us a list of the 15 schools
-- HokiesChemicals
Aug 23, 2023 at 10:50 AM ET
HokiesChemicals
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08/23/23 10:50 AM ET
With my oldest daughter, just 1 – JMU . . . (more)
-- Chesapeake_Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:57 AM ET
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08/23/23 09:57 AM ET
About 5 each but daughter's were during covid
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-- Happy Dog
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:44 AM ET
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08/23/23 09:44 AM ET
In my day you picked a school sight unseen and prayed to God you liked it
-- RoswellGAHokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 10:17 AM ET
RoswellGAHokie
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08/23/23 10:17 AM ET
2, but she knew where she wanted to go
-- Tafkam Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:38 AM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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08/23/23 09:38 AM ET
7 we didn't do VT my son said he'd been there a hundred times.**
-- vthhhi
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:32 AM ET
vthhhi
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08/23/23 09:32 AM ET
I ask because my daughter has been to 14 this summer, and it seemed
-- Late 80s Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:27 AM ET
Late 80s Hokie
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08/23/23 09:27 AM ET
I’ll bet she can’t decide on major either! Sorry. **
-- DonHo-kieHi
Aug 23, 2023 at 10:16 PM ET
DonHo-kieHi
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08/23/23 10:16 PM ET
Yeah. Seems like a senseless waste of money that could have gone to, you
-- Late 80s Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 10:07 AM ET
Late 80s Hokie
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08/23/23 10:07 AM ET
Our twins visited six between them. **
-- RoswellGAHokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:23 AM ET
RoswellGAHokie
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08/23/23 09:23 AM ET
4 for the first, 2 for the second, and 2 (so far) for the third with at ...
-- vt90
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:17 AM ET
vt90
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08/23/23 09:17 AM ET
Only VT but she did a volleyball camp at UVa**
-- No Clue
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:17 AM ET
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08/23/23 09:17 AM ET
3 or 4 ish... per the 2 kids**
-- Tuckahokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:09 AM ET
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08/23/23 09:09 AM ET
At least 8. My son and I made a grand tour when he was on spring break.
-- Galenahokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 09:08 AM ET
Galenahokie
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08/23/23 09:08 AM ET
3 with both. uVa, JMU and VT. Both decided on VT**
-- RhinoVT
Aug 23, 2023 at 08:59 AM ET
RhinoVT
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08/23/23 08:59 AM ET
we would drive through as many as we could on trips and that were close
-- bigbadbird
Aug 23, 2023 at 08:56 AM ET
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08/23/23 08:56 AM ET
4 - he knew what he wanted to do and the area he wanted to be in
-- Vienna_Hokie
Aug 23, 2023 at 08:56 AM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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08/23/23 08:56 AM ET
Probably 5-6 per kid. **
-- GreenvilleVT
Aug 23, 2023 at 08:52 AM ET
GreenvilleVT
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08/23/23 08:52 AM ET
Me and two friends visited the three schools we had already picked out. VT,
-- dolph
Aug 23, 2023 at 08:49 AM ET
dolph
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08/23/23 08:49 AM ET
probably about 7 through sports "prospect camps", but 3 seriously**
-- JoesterVT
Aug 23, 2023 at 08:39 AM ET
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08/23/23 08:39 AM ET