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failure is a great educator - the role of the parent is to
facilitate experiences where the kid will fail (along with opportunities and encouragement to keep trying) and to prevent incidents where the failure would be catastrophic (and thus no opportunity for learning)
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My granddaughter turned 5 the other day
-- HokieMacDaddy
Jul 16, 2024 at 08:48 AM ET
HokieMacDaddy
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07/16/24 08:48 AM ET
…mind you don’t cut yourself Mordecai**
-- chumley
Jul 16, 2024 at 11:45 AM ET
chumley
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07/16/24 11:45 AM ET
"OLD" must be just off-camera range**
-- TomTurkey
Jul 16, 2024 at 02:22 PM ET
TomTurkey
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07/16/24 02:22 PM ET
A guy I used to work with had adult kids (17 and 18 years old) who...
-- EDGEMAN
Jul 16, 2024 at 11:04 AM ET
EDGEMAN
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07/16/24 11:04 AM ET
That's easy... Dinner is at x time and you will eat what's served...or..
-- Vienna_Hokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:44 PM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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07/16/24 12:44 PM ET
Yup, that's what we did. Now my grown kids are very adventurous eaters.**
-- soldcokesatLane
Jul 16, 2024 at 03:37 PM ET
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07/16/24 03:37 PM ET
Growing up, my siblings ate what mom put on the table. The only time we...
-- EDGEMAN
Jul 16, 2024 at 01:21 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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07/16/24 01:21 PM ET
Last night I made fried pork chops with potatoes, red cabbage, green beans,
-- Hokie CPA
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:36 PM ET
Hokie CPA
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07/16/24 12:36 PM ET
There are otherwise completely healthy and cogent 18 and 19 years olds that
-- Tuckahokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 11:23 AM ET
Tuckahokie
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07/16/24 11:23 AM ET
My son didn't get his license
-- Tafkam Hokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 03:28 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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07/16/24 03:28 PM ET
Youngest was "driving" at 12. 🤦♂️ Oldest after he started college.**
-- TomTurkey
Jul 16, 2024 at 06:38 PM ET
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07/16/24 06:38 PM ET
I”m 72 & didn’t get a driver”s license until I was 18…
-- BusLoadaBozos
Jul 16, 2024 at 01:19 PM ET
BusLoadaBozos
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07/16/24 01:19 PM ET
I've heard about those types of kids...
-- EDGEMAN
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:15 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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07/16/24 12:15 PM ET
I forged my report card so I could get my license
-- Vienna_Hokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:47 PM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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07/16/24 12:47 PM ET
My brain was designed to work with numbers...
-- EDGEMAN
Jul 16, 2024 at 01:23 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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07/16/24 01:23 PM ET
I could not have thought of anything I cared less about at that time
-- Vienna_Hokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:55 PM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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07/16/24 12:55 PM ET
I thought it was an easy A(plus), so I did it. My other grades needed the
-- Hokie CPA
Jul 16, 2024 at 01:05 PM ET
Hokie CPA
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07/16/24 01:05 PM ET
I was telling my parents that I wanted to get my learner's permit...
-- EDGEMAN
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:40 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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07/16/24 12:40 PM ET
our kids in Iowa got their learners at 14, school license 3 months later
-- Vienna_Hokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:50 PM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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07/16/24 12:50 PM ET
Same... passed that test 4 months to the day before my 16th.
-- Hokie CPA
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:47 PM ET
Hokie CPA
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07/16/24 12:47 PM ET
Isn't everyone these days?
-- HokieMacDaddy
Jul 16, 2024 at 10:54 AM ET
HokieMacDaddy
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07/16/24 10:54 AM ET
Perhaps have her evaluated?**
-- CrystalCoveHokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 10:55 AM ET
CrystalCoveHokie
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07/16/24 10:55 AM ET
they did - saw a bunch of docs until they got the "diagnosis" they wanted**
-- HokieMacDaddy
Jul 16, 2024 at 11:00 AM ET
HokieMacDaddy
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07/16/24 11:00 AM ET
Sounds like she will be challenging…..
-- CrystalCoveHokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 11:10 AM ET
CrystalCoveHokie
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07/16/24 11:10 AM ET
I did that with driving with my son
-- Vienna_Hokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:37 PM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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07/16/24 12:37 PM ET
That's funny. Now look at him - bike master. It worked!**
-- MP4VT2004
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:21 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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07/16/24 12:21 PM ET
failure is a great educator - the role of the parent is to
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-- HokieMacDaddy
Jul 16, 2024 at 12:08 PM ET
HokieMacDaddy
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07/16/24 12:08 PM ET
Kids can be so different
-- WestyHokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 09:27 AM ET
WestyHokie
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07/16/24 09:27 AM ET
It's not the benchmarks she is or isn't hitting that bothers me
-- HokieMacDaddy
Jul 16, 2024 at 09:35 AM ET
HokieMacDaddy
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07/16/24 09:35 AM ET
My bro in law is like that
-- WestyHokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 10:42 AM ET
WestyHokie
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07/16/24 10:42 AM ET
My wife is a full time swim coach, and she's struggling right now
-- Happy Dog
Jul 16, 2024 at 10:35 AM ET
Happy Dog
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07/16/24 10:35 AM ET
We're way beyond that
-- HokieMacDaddy
Jul 16, 2024 at 10:58 AM ET
HokieMacDaddy
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07/16/24 10:58 AM ET
If they are planning to send her to school, that's a problem
-- Vienna_Hokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 09:43 AM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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07/16/24 09:43 AM ET
Oh no, the public schools aren't good enough for her (eye roll)
-- HokieMacDaddy
Jul 16, 2024 at 10:24 AM ET
HokieMacDaddy
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07/16/24 10:24 AM ET
that's a shame, and it's frightening because my wife's best friend ...
-- Vienna_Hokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 10:37 AM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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07/16/24 10:37 AM ET
Yikes. Little guy turned 4 yesterday
-- hoosnowahokie
Jul 16, 2024 at 08:55 AM ET
hoosnowahokie
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07/16/24 08:55 AM ET
How'd that old commercial go? "I learned it from you Dad!"
-- vthokieq
Jul 16, 2024 at 08:51 AM ET
vthokieq
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07/16/24 08:51 AM ET
🎶The Cat's in the Cradle**
-- TomTurkey
Jul 16, 2024 at 11:18 AM ET
TomTurkey
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07/16/24 11:18 AM ET
I think it's more a reaction to my parenting style than a mimic of it
-- HokieMacDaddy
Jul 16, 2024 at 09:34 AM ET
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07/16/24 09:34 AM ET