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4) generous application of therapeutic alcohol

Since my son moved to Wisconsin (to follow his GF who is a vet student of UW in Madison...they will marry AFTER she graduates and she has a nice job to match his Mechanical Engineering job because that's what responsible adults do), I've been turned on to the Wisconsin brandy old fashioned, which has been my Friday afternoon companion through all this.
Posted: 09/05/2025 at 09:16 AM ET
(In response to this post by ColoVT82)

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Has anyone actually survived their daughter's engagement and wedding prep?
Happy Dog 09/04/25 05:26 AM ET
1) stay out of planning, 2) pay, 3) no questions, ...**
ColoVT82 09/04/25 05:53 PM ET
1) avoiding like the plague, 2) oh I am, 3) observing with detached alarm**
Happy Dog 09/05/25 05:43 AM ET
Prognosis - good!**
ColoVT82 09/05/25 09:10 AM ET
4) generous application of therapeutic alcohol
Happy Dog 09/05/25 09:16 AM ET
This ^^^i s pretty much the LAW **
The Hokie Steve 09/04/25 06:44 PM ET
Dude, learn from my mistake. Give them money and say that's all they get.
Hokebury 09/04/25 02:06 PM ET
Bookmarking this for (probable) future reference...
Burruss Writer 09/04/25 11:44 AM ET
Ouch ! Mostly an enormous waste of money**
astrohokie 09/04/25 10:27 AM ET
I put aside a specific amount of money. When my daughter got engaged
Spudnut 09/04/25 01:09 PM ET
Survived two in the last three months.
Jammin` Turkey 09/04/25 10:24 AM ET
I just let my wife tell me what all the plans were, just kept writing
7Hokie1 09/04/25 10:21 AM ET
two words: Destination wedding. **
RhinoVT 09/04/25 10:04 AM ET
The destination is INSANITY **
Happy Dog 09/04/25 10:46 AM ET
I'm not sure I'll survive my daughter being 12 and heading into her teens.**
reestuart 09/04/25 08:45 AM ET
Prayers because we went through that crucible and it was not easy
Happy Dog 09/04/25 08:58 AM ET
LOL. I'm afraid she is as strong as her mom. On one hand, I think it's
reestuart 09/04/25 09:16 AM ET
Yup. Once they come out the other side, it’s all good. But boy those middle
Stork 09/04/25 09:36 AM ET
Mine is super smart and super headstrong
Happy Dog 09/04/25 09:27 AM ET
Children are the work of Satan.**
PhotoHokieNC 09/04/25 08:23 AM ET
I survived. But not easily. The combination of headstrong daughter and
Spudnut 09/04/25 07:49 AM ET
Your last line perfectly describes where I am right now.
MP4VT2004 09/04/25 12:47 PM ET
You will always be her dad, the first male she ever loved
Spudnut 09/04/25 01:02 PM ET
Damn, that hit me right in my allergies.**
MP4VT2004 09/04/25 01:47 PM ET
Me too. And see inside **
Spudnut 09/04/25 03:35 PM ET
Daughter= flight, wife=fight......it's a great combo**
Happy Dog 09/04/25 08:59 AM ET
I survived....but I admittedly just stayed out of the way....
BleedinOandM 09/04/25 07:38 AM ET
I think a lot of issues arise when parents forget it isn't about them.**
vthokieq 09/04/25 08:04 AM ET
We realize it's not about us
Happy Dog 09/04/25 09:28 AM ET
Setting a budget isn't unreasonable at all.
vthokieq 09/04/25 09:45 AM ET
Our wedding was small
Happy Dog 09/04/25 10:55 AM ET
You need to watch that Steve Martin/Martin Short/Diane Keaton movie.
Coach McGuirk 09/04/25 06:48 AM ET
My daughter has seen it 100 times
Happy Dog 09/04/25 09:00 AM ET
Your new Delta Tau Chi name is Unhappy Dog
Stork 09/04/25 06:25 AM ET
How about just "Roadkill"?
Happy Dog 09/04/25 09:01 AM ET
That's the cowards way out...
Burruss Writer 09/04/25 11:42 AM ET
Offer your daughter a huge payday if she elopes.**
EDGEMAN 09/04/25 05:50 AM ET
You're hilarious, my friend
Happy Dog 09/04/25 09:04 AM ET