The older kid was in a fender-bender about a month ago
I was trying to explain what happened, what happens next, and that since no one was injured, it was just one of those unfortunate life accidents that can happen to anyone, and not something to be shaken up about. When I got to the part about filing a claim with insurance, that led to "what is insurance?"
I tried to explain how insurance is you paying someone else a little money every month to protect yourself from the unlikely event of something bad. But if something bad does happen, then insurance pays for it instead of you. I tried to make it as kid-friendly an explanation as I could, but she still glazed over and zoned out. The insurance analogy works great for adults, but I'm not sure it works in this case.
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Tricky child raising moment from the weekend re. firearms.
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:34 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 02:34 PM ET
…this is my rifle. there are many like it, but this one is mine**
-- chumley
Apr 01, 2024 at 06:43 PM ET
chumley
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04/01/24 06:43 PM ET
NRA for kids. The Eddie Eagle program is top notch...
-- Major Kong
Apr 01, 2024 at 06:20 PM ET
Major Kong
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04/01/24 06:20 PM ET
Get them involved in 4h. We have a 4h group that shoots .22 at our range.
-- section11hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 05:15 PM ET
section11hokie
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04/01/24 05:15 PM ET
Some good advice below. Here's how I'd approach it:
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:44 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/01/24 04:44 PM ET
I think you and your fiancee have covered the basics expertly. Don't
-- PhotoHokieNC
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:16 PM ET
PhotoHokieNC
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04/01/24 04:16 PM ET
Start by explaining why firearms are important to you and your fiance.
-- HokieHigh
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:37 PM ET
HokieHigh
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04/01/24 03:37 PM ET
I'm not sure I could coherently explain it to a 12yo
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:09 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 04:09 PM ET
I think you might be surprised.
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 01, 2024 at 06:50 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/01/24 06:50 PM ET
I would save some of the more theoretical parts of that but that seems like
-- HokieHigh
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:19 PM ET
HokieHigh
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04/01/24 04:19 PM ET
The older kid was in a fender-bender about a month ago
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-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:37 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 04:37 PM ET
Got my first over/under .22/20 gauge shotgun at age 13, but I grew up in a
-- Nortazhokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:03 PM ET
Nortazhokie
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04/01/24 03:03 PM ET
Pretty much the same...I grew up in a house full of guns. Dad was an...
-- Major Kong
Apr 01, 2024 at 06:15 PM ET
Major Kong
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04/01/24 06:15 PM ET
I would love to have a .22/410 over/under. So cool!
-- WVHokie84
Apr 01, 2024 at 07:07 PM ET
WVHokie84
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04/01/24 07:07 PM ET
I just bought my first bolt action .22 a year or two ago
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:15 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/01/24 03:15 PM ET
You'll shoot your rifling out, kid!**
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 01, 2024 at 11:07 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/01/24 11:07 PM ET
Never had one of those...just Crossman BB rifles.
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 02, 2024 at 06:57 AM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/02/24 06:57 AM ET
To go off on a slight tangent...
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:53 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/01/24 02:53 PM ET
To go off on a slight tangent about cars... WTF is up with cars nowadays?
-- Hurley09
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:42 PM ET
Hurley09
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04/01/24 03:42 PM ET
I wish I could give you a million likes for this post.**
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 02, 2024 at 08:51 AM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/02/24 08:51 AM ET
Not to mention how much that added to car cost**
-- 83Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 05:12 PM ET
83Hokie
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04/01/24 05:12 PM ET
If I could be king for a day, would require every car stereo to have a...
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:53 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/01/24 04:53 PM ET
Mine are on the steering wheel**
-- TomTurkey
Apr 01, 2024 at 07:43 PM ET
TomTurkey
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04/01/24 07:43 PM ET
At 12? Hmmm, that one could be tough.
-- Chris Coleman
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:51 PM ET
Chris Coleman
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04/01/24 02:51 PM ET
Take her shooting a few times and gun safety classes. She'll end up
-- Hokebury
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:56 PM ET
Hokebury
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04/01/24 03:56 PM ET
not meant to be in response to you chris.**
-- Hokebury
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:57 PM ET
Hokebury
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04/01/24 03:57 PM ET
While I didn't necessarily grow up around guns
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:03 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 03:03 PM ET
I wouldn't call it brainwashing, guns are used in a lot of crimes, but…
-- WestyHokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:39 PM ET
WestyHokie
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04/01/24 02:39 PM ET
i would def call it that
-- MrBayAreaHokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:56 PM ET
MrBayAreaHokie
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04/01/24 02:56 PM ET
That’s a very apples to nuclear fission comparison
-- WestyHokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 09:22 PM ET
WestyHokie
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04/01/24 09:22 PM ET
You missed the entire point of my post, but maybe the bourbon is flowing **
-- MrBayAreaHokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 11:29 PM ET
MrBayAreaHokie
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04/01/24 11:29 PM ET
I was at a range once and there was a dad there teaching his kid
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:55 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 02:55 PM ET
Shooting a gun for the first time is a bit scary.
-- WVHokie84
Apr 01, 2024 at 07:17 PM ET
WVHokie84
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04/01/24 07:17 PM ET
Even if it's a .22, recommend the kid wear double hearing protection.
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:38 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/01/24 02:38 PM ET
I had my son in private school up until 5th grade and I got a call one day
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:26 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 03:26 PM ET