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I think you might be surprised.
You and I are of like mind (see my post above), and I've been able to explain those exact same reasons to my daughter, who is only 11 now. She "got it" right away and didn't seem threatened or scared at all by the premise. Perhaps it helped that during COVID, when I was starting to see what I would characterize as gross government overreach with certain measures, we read the Declaration of Independence together at the dinner table over the course of several nights. My daughter certainly didn't understand the Declaration as written, so I tried to summarize it in kid terms as we went along. It seemed to stick, because when we talked about the government having to worry about pushback from an armed populace, she didn't bat an eye.
I think I'd start with just listening to your step daughter's fears and see where it goes from there. It will definitely be something to discuss slowly over time.
** Edited by MP4VT2004 at 4/1/2024, 11:04:14 PM
Thread Replies (36)
Tricky child raising moment from the weekend re. firearms.
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:34 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 02:34 PM ET
…this is my rifle. there are many like it, but this one is mine**
-- chumley
Apr 01, 2024 at 06:43 PM ET
chumley
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04/01/24 06:43 PM ET
NRA for kids. The Eddie Eagle program is top notch...
-- Major Kong
Apr 01, 2024 at 06:20 PM ET
Major Kong
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04/01/24 06:20 PM ET
Get them involved in 4h. We have a 4h group that shoots .22 at our range.
-- section11hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 05:15 PM ET
section11hokie
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04/01/24 05:15 PM ET
Some good advice below. Here's how I'd approach it:
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:44 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/01/24 04:44 PM ET
I think you and your fiancee have covered the basics expertly. Don't
-- PhotoHokieNC
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:16 PM ET
PhotoHokieNC
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04/01/24 04:16 PM ET
Start by explaining why firearms are important to you and your fiance.
-- HokieHigh
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:37 PM ET
HokieHigh
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04/01/24 03:37 PM ET
I'm not sure I could coherently explain it to a 12yo
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:09 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 04:09 PM ET
I think you might be surprised.
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-- MP4VT2004
Apr 01, 2024 at 06:50 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/01/24 06:50 PM ET
I would save some of the more theoretical parts of that but that seems like
-- HokieHigh
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:19 PM ET
HokieHigh
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04/01/24 04:19 PM ET
The older kid was in a fender-bender about a month ago
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:37 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 04:37 PM ET
Got my first over/under .22/20 gauge shotgun at age 13, but I grew up in a
-- Nortazhokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:03 PM ET
Nortazhokie
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04/01/24 03:03 PM ET
Pretty much the same...I grew up in a house full of guns. Dad was an...
-- Major Kong
Apr 01, 2024 at 06:15 PM ET
Major Kong
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04/01/24 06:15 PM ET
I would love to have a .22/410 over/under. So cool!
-- WVHokie84
Apr 01, 2024 at 07:07 PM ET
WVHokie84
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04/01/24 07:07 PM ET
I just bought my first bolt action .22 a year or two ago
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:15 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/01/24 03:15 PM ET
You'll shoot your rifling out, kid!**
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 01, 2024 at 11:07 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/01/24 11:07 PM ET
Never had one of those...just Crossman BB rifles.
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 02, 2024 at 06:57 AM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/02/24 06:57 AM ET
To go off on a slight tangent...
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:53 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/01/24 02:53 PM ET
To go off on a slight tangent about cars... WTF is up with cars nowadays?
-- Hurley09
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:42 PM ET
Hurley09
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04/01/24 03:42 PM ET
I wish I could give you a million likes for this post.**
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 02, 2024 at 08:51 AM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/02/24 08:51 AM ET
Not to mention how much that added to car cost**
-- 83Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 05:12 PM ET
83Hokie
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04/01/24 05:12 PM ET
If I could be king for a day, would require every car stereo to have a...
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 01, 2024 at 04:53 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/01/24 04:53 PM ET
Mine are on the steering wheel**
-- TomTurkey
Apr 01, 2024 at 07:43 PM ET
TomTurkey
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04/01/24 07:43 PM ET
At 12? Hmmm, that one could be tough.
-- Chris Coleman
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:51 PM ET
Chris Coleman
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04/01/24 02:51 PM ET
Take her shooting a few times and gun safety classes. She'll end up
-- Hokebury
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:56 PM ET
Hokebury
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04/01/24 03:56 PM ET
not meant to be in response to you chris.**
-- Hokebury
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:57 PM ET
Hokebury
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04/01/24 03:57 PM ET
While I didn't necessarily grow up around guns
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:03 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 03:03 PM ET
I wouldn't call it brainwashing, guns are used in a lot of crimes, but…
-- WestyHokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:39 PM ET
WestyHokie
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04/01/24 02:39 PM ET
i would def call it that
-- MrBayAreaHokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:56 PM ET
MrBayAreaHokie
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04/01/24 02:56 PM ET
That’s a very apples to nuclear fission comparison
-- WestyHokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 09:22 PM ET
WestyHokie
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04/01/24 09:22 PM ET
You missed the entire point of my post, but maybe the bourbon is flowing **
-- MrBayAreaHokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 11:29 PM ET
MrBayAreaHokie
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04/01/24 11:29 PM ET
I was at a range once and there was a dad there teaching his kid
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:55 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 02:55 PM ET
Shooting a gun for the first time is a bit scary.
-- WVHokie84
Apr 01, 2024 at 07:17 PM ET
WVHokie84
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04/01/24 07:17 PM ET
Even if it's a .22, recommend the kid wear double hearing protection.
-- EDGEMAN
Apr 01, 2024 at 02:38 PM ET
EDGEMAN
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04/01/24 02:38 PM ET
I had my son in private school up until 5th grade and I got a call one day
-- Tafkam Hokie
Apr 01, 2024 at 03:26 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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04/01/24 03:26 PM ET