little me follow-up...
wow, how weird not to go over today at 3:30. I knew absolutely I didn't have to but the other part of my mind was expecting a call "where the heck are you" like I was screwing up. I need to leave!!! Breaking habits has its own logic.
immediate benefit is saving 150 miles and four hours a week driving on the DC beltway, Been one of those frustrating things that I can't seem to get away from driving back and forth on 95 on the beltway Not trivial either it was about this time last year in April my last car was totalled. Hopefully, other than occasional travel (Like going to the 'burg) that will end forever. Benefit two is that my time is entirely mine now. never been here before with retirement and no longer taking care of my dad, (granted, there is taking care of his affairs) I could take a month long roadtrip if I desired. Of course, I better build a new routine soon. Benefit 2 1/2 is I can schedule things out now in my tennis leagues I could only schedule my availability. as 50% of the dates, Just went back and listed all of them default = available for now. Plan a trip to Michigan later this summer or fall. Been to 49 other states, last one. Anyway, I have money and I have time but I don't have forever. (ooh, not bad eh?)
I can now make it down to the 'burg and not have to be back anymore. music festivals etc. Even can think about moving back to Virginia now. Anyway mind's all abuzz. Definitely a day one of the rest of my life.
** Edited by `lag at 4/12/2026, 9:07:23 PM
** Edited by `lag at 4/13/2026, 10:14:22 AM
Thread Replies (30)
Dad passed away yesterday morning...
-- `lag
Apr 11, 2026 at 12:24 PM ET
`lag
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04/11/26 12:24 PM ET
He may have lived during the best century in human history
-- WestyHokie
Apr 12, 2026 at 08:41 AM ET
WestyHokie
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04/12/26 08:41 AM ET
Yeah, I think about stuff like that...
-- `lag
Apr 12, 2026 at 09:41 AM ET
`lag
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04/12/26 09:41 AM ET
Wow. 101 and WW2 vet. Amazing man. Condolences to you and your family. **
-- soldcokesatLane
Apr 11, 2026 at 11:01 PM ET
soldcokesatLane
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04/11/26 11:01 PM ET
Yeah, WWII was a recent to me, but kids today would think of it like
-- `lag
Apr 11, 2026 at 11:22 PM ET
`lag
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04/11/26 11:22 PM ET
Sorry to hear that lag, losing one's father IS losing your best friend, at
-- PWR2LZ
Apr 11, 2026 at 10:28 PM ET
PWR2LZ
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04/11/26 10:28 PM ET
Be careful, that means I'll be posting for another 30 years (wink-wink)
-- `lag
Apr 11, 2026 at 11:18 PM ET
`lag
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04/11/26 11:18 PM ET
Great stories and thanks for sharing! RIP’lagdad**
-- DonHo-kieHi
Apr 11, 2026 at 06:45 PM ET
DonHo-kieHi
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04/11/26 06:45 PM ET
RIP Greatest Generation Condolences 🫶
-- TomTurkey
Apr 11, 2026 at 05:07 PM ET
TomTurkey
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04/11/26 05:07 PM ET
Condolences on your loss, lag
-- MAHokie69
Apr 11, 2026 at 04:41 PM ET
MAHokie69
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04/11/26 04:41 PM ET
I should add his younger sister just broke 100 a couple weeks ago
-- `lag
Apr 11, 2026 at 04:45 PM ET
`lag
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04/11/26 04:45 PM ET
Sorry for your loss. I was on GUARDIAN (MCM 5)
-- ValveHokie
Apr 11, 2026 at 04:11 PM ET
ValveHokie
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04/11/26 04:11 PM ET
That's right, one thing I knew as a kid is minesweepers had wooden hulls.
-- `lag
Apr 11, 2026 at 04:27 PM ET
`lag
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04/11/26 04:27 PM ET
So sorry, 'lag. Your dad was clearly an incredible man who lived a...
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 11, 2026 at 02:16 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/11/26 02:16 PM ET
🇺🇸🛢️👍🏻Our condolences, ‘lag.**
-- PhotoHokieNC
Apr 11, 2026 at 02:09 PM ET
PhotoHokieNC
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04/11/26 02:09 PM ET
Sorry for your loss. Your father lived a heck of a life
-- Burke Hokie
Apr 11, 2026 at 02:07 PM ET
Burke Hokie
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04/11/26 02:07 PM ET
Wow...same age as my WWII Navy Dad (who died too young) For you to be 70
-- Tuckahokie
Apr 11, 2026 at 02:03 PM ET
Tuckahokie
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04/11/26 02:03 PM ET
As I watch the 90th Masters on TV, I just realized your dad was...
-- MP4VT2004
Apr 11, 2026 at 03:28 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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04/11/26 03:28 PM ET
My condolences 'lag.**
-- Gator Hokie
Apr 11, 2026 at 01:26 PM ET
Gator Hokie
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04/11/26 01:26 PM ET
At nearly 102, I know there are some good stories and experience there.
-- 4dhokies
Apr 11, 2026 at 12:47 PM ET
4dhokies
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04/11/26 12:47 PM ET
A life very well lived🙏**
-- astrohokie
Apr 11, 2026 at 12:43 PM ET
astrohokie
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04/11/26 12:43 PM ET