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If they're at Tech, Blacksburg in the summer is glorious. My oldest is...

wrapping up middle school this year so too early to tell but I'm hoping I'll both still want him to hang around when he's that age but also would encourage him to explore new things at his college/university if he wants to. From my memory, that dynamic changed for me throughout college. After freshmen year, coming home was good because I was still very close to high school friends and getting to reconnect was very important. I still have a bunch of those relationships, but the ones made in college gradually moved to the forefront so staying in town for the summer was better for me.
Posted: 04/26/2024 at 08:32 AM ET
(In response to this post by bigbadbird)

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People with college kids... do you encourage them to come home or stay at
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 09:13 AM ET
If they're at Tech, Blacksburg in the summer is glorious. My oldest is... ◄
hokiehill1117 • 04/26/24 08:32 AM ET
mine stays in nyc all year
MrBayAreaHokie • 04/25/24 05:01 PM ET
exactly- we already have to pay for an apartment
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 06:27 PM ET
Come home. Really? They of course can make their own choice but certainly
UTPr0sim • 04/25/24 03:31 PM ET
I wish mine stayed at school.
HokieByWater • 04/25/24 02:20 PM ET
I leave the choice to them. It encourages them to make grown up decisions.
Spud • 04/25/24 01:49 PM ET
Come home, always....
Hokie_N_NC • 04/25/24 12:11 PM ET
ALWAYS welcome at home. We're no kind of helicopter parents and I know my
BG Hokie • 04/25/24 11:50 AM ET
Their choice -- which has been/is likely to be stay at school
Hokie Fiji • 04/25/24 11:36 AM ET
We use various football/basketball weekends as an excuse to visit her.
No Clue • 04/25/24 11:23 AM ET
Same here
Hokie Fiji • 04/25/24 11:48 AM ET
My son rarely came home except on breaks...
vthhhi • 04/25/24 10:33 AM ET
can't have enough good teachers in this world.**
VT Pez4Life • 04/25/24 10:47 AM ET
congrats**
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 10:33 AM ET
Mine is a sophomore in HS still, but I predict we will go visit him vs. him
99VT • 04/25/24 10:22 AM ET
my son is 3.5 and still ****s himself...can't answer it!
VT Pez4Life • 04/25/24 10:15 AM ET
i had a kid **** himself until 4
MrBayAreaHokie • 04/25/24 09:14 PM ET
Still probably smarter than a lot of the college students nowadays.**
HokieNoVA • 04/25/24 11:26 AM ET
I dont encourage either way. She knows when she needs a break**
HokieJamie • 04/25/24 10:12 AM ET
son is finishing up his freshman year
JoesterVT • 04/25/24 10:08 AM ET
Shouldn't they decide what they want to do in their time between semesters?
EDGEMAN • 04/25/24 10:03 AM ET
well- they want to not work and have no schedule is my current opinion**
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 10:06 AM ET
AH, no money no stay was my rule. Work or got to school. You have 2
UTPr0sim • 04/25/24 03:33 PM ET
yeah ok- agree
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 03:40 PM ET
I thought internships and co-ops during breaks are now common?
Baltimore Hokie • 04/25/24 02:40 PM ET
they are common unless you dodge them**
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 02:45 PM ET
…ma, the meatloaf !**
chumley • 04/25/24 10:51 AM ET
pretty much- except it's a girl**
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 11:18 AM ET
Then encourage them to work a summer job. Hard manual labor it best for...
EDGEMAN • 04/25/24 10:12 AM ET
After my freshman year I got an offer to apprentice with an electrician
Vienna_Hokie • 04/25/24 11:16 AM ET
i had a similar experience- it sped things up **
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 11:17 AM ET
agree**
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 10:16 AM ET
Can't say I really "encourage" anything. They are becoming a grown-up
Tafkam Hokie • 04/25/24 09:59 AM ET
Son graduated VT last May....I encouraged him to stay at school but....
BleedinOandM • 04/25/24 09:29 AM ET
I encourage them to get a job and live where the job is**
VT Pops • 04/25/24 09:25 AM ET
Mine has pretty much stayed at school but he's 11 hours away by car
Vienna_Hokie • 04/25/24 09:23 AM ET
i have one we agreed could get an apartment but they want to come home
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 09:26 AM ET
Local friends? We moved here when he graduated HS, so this is not home
Vienna_Hokie • 04/25/24 09:33 AM ET
yes probably- but 14 weeks is a long time to commit and find out after 3
bigbadbird • 04/25/24 09:41 AM ET