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Yep, doing that right now. It's been going well. She likes doing what
she does, and given that she didn't work for a very long time, well, I would get smacked for that comment, she worked raising the kids and that was a lot of work, but when she got back into the workforce after the kids were grown, she needed a few years of higher income for social security benefits to be a lot higher.
In a sense she's working for current benefits, health insurance, dental, vision, those things I busted my ass for about 35 years, and for her future benefits of higher retirement income from Uncle Sam. Also, she needed a few more years to vest in her retirement plan, too.
I still do some self-employment type stuff, but I certainly don't try to set the world on fire or show off, just enough to not start tapping retirement savings, because I'm not even social security eligible yet.
The best advice I got from a friend who was also in the same situation, was to get your ass out of bed in the morning when she does, and at least be somewhat productive until she leaves the house 🤣 and it really does make a difference. If you sleep in till 10:00 everyday, things might get off to a rocky start.
Thread Replies (27)
Lounge Advice: Anyone done the career switcheroo, you retire, spouse works?
-- WestyHokie
Jan 12, 2024 at 08:34 AM ET
WestyHokie
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01/12/24 08:34 AM ET
Yep, doing that right now. It's been going well. She likes doing what
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-- UEMcGill
Jan 12, 2024 at 02:33 PM ET
UEMcGill
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01/12/24 02:33 PM ET
I'm trying it now, not going exactly as planned
-- Hokie Chris
Jan 12, 2024 at 11:19 AM ET
Hokie Chris
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01/12/24 11:19 AM ET
Ha, yeah that's a no-win conversation. Women...can't live without them...**
-- MP4VT2004
Jan 12, 2024 at 02:15 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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01/12/24 02:15 PM ET
Good luck with that, it might work.
-- Blobster
Jan 12, 2024 at 10:23 AM ET
Blobster
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01/12/24 10:23 AM ET
That's my grand scheme. I'll let you know in about 10 years how it works.
-- reestuart
Jan 12, 2024 at 09:54 AM ET
reestuart
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01/12/24 09:54 AM ET
I'm retired and wife still works. She enjoys work. I couldn't wait to get
-- Stork
Jan 12, 2024 at 09:52 AM ET
Stork
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01/12/24 09:52 AM ET
Ditto. Wife loves her job
-- Burke Hokie
Jan 12, 2024 at 01:19 PM ET
Burke Hokie
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01/12/24 01:19 PM ET
Somebody had to do it. Thanks for keeping the lounge up to standards. **
-- GreenvilleVT
Jan 12, 2024 at 01:53 PM ET
GreenvilleVT
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01/12/24 01:53 PM ET
Get a jorb as a pizza buffet attendant.
-- MEHOKIE
Jan 12, 2024 at 09:27 AM ET
MEHOKIE
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01/12/24 09:27 AM ET
I am hoping to go part time in about 3 years and the mrs will continue to
-- vt90
Jan 12, 2024 at 09:08 AM ET
vt90
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01/12/24 09:08 AM ET
Very similar, and seems fair to me, but not sure my wife agrees**
-- WestyHokie
Jan 12, 2024 at 11:09 AM ET
WestyHokie
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01/12/24 11:09 AM ET
Mine resisted at first, but I was able to close the deal with the following
-- vt90
Jan 12, 2024 at 11:23 AM ET
vt90
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01/12/24 11:23 AM ET
Wellllp, that story in reverse is sort of how I became a nurse.
-- VToncologyNurse
Jan 12, 2024 at 08:50 AM ET
VToncologyNurse
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01/12/24 08:50 AM ET
I did that. After 35+ yrs in real world became
-- Riverguy
Jan 12, 2024 at 08:42 AM ET
Riverguy
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01/12/24 08:42 AM ET
Oh wow, most people are leaving teaching after covid.
-- 99VT
Jan 12, 2024 at 10:03 AM ET
99VT
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01/12/24 10:03 AM ET
Literal LOL **
-- statmanfromHCyrs
Jan 12, 2024 at 09:13 AM ET
statmanfromHCyrs
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01/12/24 09:13 AM ET
You should talk to Coach McGuirk then**
-- WestyHokie
Jan 12, 2024 at 08:43 AM ET
WestyHokie
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01/12/24 08:43 AM ET
More lounge appropriate: Anyone do the wife switcheroo?**
-- Coach McGuirk
Jan 12, 2024 at 08:36 AM ET
Coach McGuirk
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01/12/24 08:36 AM ET
A guy I used to work with kind of did that. Two couples lived next to
-- MCL3 Hokie
Jan 12, 2024 at 12:30 PM ET
MCL3 Hokie
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01/12/24 12:30 PM ET
Third times a charm.**
-- DonHo-kieHi
Jan 12, 2024 at 11:00 AM ET
DonHo-kieHi
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01/12/24 11:00 AM ET