Ive got 3 kids going in multiple directions, its hard to keep it all straight. Someone at VT, who represents a department I've donated to in the past reached out to make personal contact. We then went over the vision and what was needed for the future. I guess he could have waited, under your theory, wishing/hoping that i would "look in the mirror" and somehow (through telepathy?) know exactly what his vision was. Leadership and casting your vision to those you want something from matters.