you don't earn the opportunity to "lose" big games without winning big games. It is the constant moving target. Tough loss, but it is a crazy mindset. The fact that anyone suggests that we get "once in 10 years anything successful" is simply lost, confused, or both. Never have understood the urge to run to a message board after a loss and rip everything about your (presumably) school as if it is therapuetic. Send yourself an email if that helps (others may wish to take this advice during games as well)! Can't even get Whit's quote correct. Understand real disappointment, as we all have and will have again.