I would be paying most of my income to have someone stay with my wife and it would be hard to find someone. IT is not a 8 to 5 job, it is an 8 to when I get home which in the past could be after midnight. I have given up most of my dreams, but am trying to get things in order to move to a waterfront home in Northern Neck in the next few years. At least, I got my butt out of Northern Virginia to a horse farm outside of Richmond which is going up in price. I just need to put 50k into it to get the best price and it will sell quickly.