she had one of those silly "in person" jobs forever. She was able to get a remote one 3 years ago and we got the heck outta there and it has really improved our relationship and overall happiness. It's so much more relaxing down here, got ourselves an 8 acre spot with a house that was absolutely trashed by the previous tenants. But we've had fun fixing it up and doing a lot of the work ourselves. No spawn, we shan't be creating those. Neither of us really wanted kids and, on my side alone, we've got 28-31 nieces and nephews. That's a shiRtload of Hurleys, no need to add to that mess.