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Yes, generally the sacrifice is not owning a home
And with interest rates rising, many won't own one until their 30s.
There are individual solutions, but older generations need to realize we have different challenges and can't do it the way they did. That American Dream (Married, 1 income, 2 kids, nice home in neighborhood) is not attainable for the vast majority of under 30 anymore. And just saying "Well, make sacrifices and get it to work" doesn't really help anyone.
FTR, I have accomplished this, and I am one of a VERY few of my peers that has. Most of my kids friends parents are 4+ years older than my wife and I. I still have classmates just getting married or having their first kid or buying their first house now. (I'm 35 btw)
[Post edited by hoosnowahokie at 04/15/2022 12:02PM]
There are individual solutions, but older generations need to realize we have different challenges and can't do it the way they did. That American Dream (Married, 1 income, 2 kids, nice home in neighborhood) is not attainable for the vast majority of under 30 anymore. And just saying "Well, make sacrifices and get it to work" doesn't really help anyone.
FTR, I have accomplished this, and I am one of a VERY few of my peers that has. Most of my kids friends parents are 4+ years older than my wife and I. I still have classmates just getting married or having their first kid or buying their first house now. (I'm 35 btw)
[Post edited by hoosnowahokie at 04/15/2022 12:02PM]
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Mortgage rates 5 percent..the world is ending
-- capitals1
Apr 15, 2022 at 08:49 AM ET
capitals1
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04/15/22 08:49 AM ET
In the 80's we refinanced to get DOWN to 18%**
-- Galenahokie
Apr 16, 2022 at 08:37 AM ET
Galenahokie
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04/16/22 08:37 AM ET
We need interest rates on savings to keep pace**
-- WestyHokie
Apr 15, 2022 at 01:01 PM ET
WestyHokie
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04/15/22 01:01 PM ET
It's going to get worse before it gets better.
-- HokieJay
Apr 15, 2022 at 12:08 PM ET
HokieJay
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04/15/22 12:08 PM ET
You realize that for those under the age of 35, the cost of a home is like
-- HokieHigh
Apr 15, 2022 at 10:25 AM ET
HokieHigh
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04/15/22 10:25 AM ET
I'm not but I should extend empathy here...
-- HokieJay
Apr 15, 2022 at 01:09 PM ET
HokieJay
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04/15/22 01:09 PM ET
Some of us want to live near friends and family and unfortunately they live
-- HokieHigh
Apr 15, 2022 at 01:47 PM ET
HokieHigh
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04/15/22 01:47 PM ET
So what? Income is 500% higher too. Stop whining.**
-- HokieJay
Apr 15, 2022 at 12:36 PM ET
HokieJay
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04/15/22 12:36 PM ET
Lol, that's not even remotely true**
-- hoosnowahokie
Apr 15, 2022 at 01:39 PM ET
hoosnowahokie
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04/15/22 01:39 PM ET
Is it? You must be a CEO. **
-- HokieHigh
Apr 15, 2022 at 12:47 PM ET
HokieHigh
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04/15/22 12:47 PM ET
Yeah, unreal how low they've been for a decade
-- Vienna_Hokie
Apr 15, 2022 at 09:52 AM ET
Vienna_Hokie
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04/15/22 09:52 AM ET
My first house in 1985 in CLT was 11.75%. Everyone marveled we got one
-- PhotoHokieNC
Apr 15, 2022 at 09:40 AM ET
PhotoHokieNC
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04/15/22 09:40 AM ET
Not ending, but unless you are going into Computer Science
-- hoosnowahokie
Apr 15, 2022 at 09:25 AM ET
hoosnowahokie
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04/15/22 09:25 AM ET
I don't know if that is much of a factor. If so, you'd expect a surplus of
-- jmanatVT
Apr 15, 2022 at 10:08 AM ET
jmanatVT
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04/15/22 10:08 AM ET
Those are getting torn down and new nicer/fancier homes/apartments go up
-- RTFC
Apr 15, 2022 at 10:19 AM ET
RTFC
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04/15/22 10:19 AM ET
It's hard to make a case against or defend a mythical complainer :-). I do
-- jmanatVT
Apr 15, 2022 at 10:33 AM ET
jmanatVT
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04/15/22 10:33 AM ET
Part of that is no one builds a 1 story
-- hoosnowahokie
Apr 15, 2022 at 10:05 AM ET
hoosnowahokie
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04/15/22 10:05 AM ET
"Just too far away" - make a sacrifice for what you want more
-- RTFC
Apr 15, 2022 at 10:13 AM ET
RTFC
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04/15/22 10:13 AM ET
Yes, generally the sacrifice is not owning a home
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-- hoosnowahokie
Apr 15, 2022 at 12:00 PM ET
hoosnowahokie
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04/15/22 12:00 PM ET
Yep you need a FAANG job**
-- HokieForever
Apr 15, 2022 at 09:27 AM ET
HokieForever
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04/15/22 09:27 AM ET
Home Ownership is overrated**
-- darnellm
Apr 15, 2022 at 09:07 AM ET
darnellm
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04/15/22 09:07 AM ET
8% on my first house in ‘92. Thought that was a good deal then.**
-- B777Fr8Dog
Apr 15, 2022 at 08:50 AM ET
B777Fr8Dog
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04/15/22 08:50 AM ET
I was happy to assume the previous owner’s 9 1/2% mortg in 89 for my house.**
-- Hoakie82
Apr 15, 2022 at 04:57 PM ET
Hoakie82
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04/15/22 04:57 PM ET