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I think it's because the world is so different from the one we grew up in..
...that everything feels threatening by comparison. I try not to be overly protective of my daughter, but I will admit that the world feels like a very scary place to raise a child right now. I really wish my daughter could grow up in the same environment I did...life was just so much simpler back then. And I think in some way I am trying my best to artificially create that environment, but it requires a lot of work and filtering of the outside world. So I understand how annoying overprotective parents are and I try really hard not to become one myself, but I also recognize that most of those types of parents are coming from a genuine place. I think it's just easy to cross the line and go from being protective, yet allowing your child to safely learn independence, to overprotective and completely prohibiting independence.
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How did the ultimate free-range kids of Gen X and early Gen Y
-- Tafkam Hokie
Sep 04, 2025 at 05:01 PM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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09/04/25 05:01 PM ET
Probably because those parents remember what they did as kids during that
-- 89HOKIE
Sep 05, 2025 at 06:13 AM ET
89HOKIE
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09/05/25 06:13 AM ET
Many years ago while at Freshman
-- skautdog
Sep 04, 2025 at 10:47 PM ET
skautdog
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09/04/25 10:47 PM ET
"My parents hated me. My bath toys were a toaster and a radio."
-- KCHokie2
Sep 04, 2025 at 10:04 PM ET
KCHokie2
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09/04/25 10:04 PM ET
The world is much more negative/evil than decades ago**
-- astrohokie
Sep 04, 2025 at 08:20 PM ET
astrohokie
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09/04/25 08:20 PM ET
This. We're just more connected than we were decades ago
-- Beerman
Sep 05, 2025 at 12:00 PM ET
Beerman
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09/05/25 12:00 PM ET
I think it IS much more negative insofar as the negative information gets
-- Late 80s Hokie
Sep 05, 2025 at 08:36 AM ET
Late 80s Hokie
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09/05/25 08:36 AM ET
1000% this... As example...
-- Burruss Writer
Sep 05, 2025 at 10:27 AM ET
Burruss Writer
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09/05/25 10:27 AM ET
Yeah, by any objective measure, living in the US is WAY safer now vs.
-- Tafkam Hokie
Sep 05, 2025 at 08:56 AM ET
Tafkam Hokie
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09/05/25 08:56 AM ET
I think it's because the world is so different from the one we grew up in..
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-- MP4VT2004
Sep 04, 2025 at 07:58 PM ET
MP4VT2004
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09/04/25 07:58 PM ET
i’ve seen the same happen with free-range chickens. they henpeck kids **
-- squarerootofone
Sep 04, 2025 at 06:32 PM ET
squarerootofone
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09/04/25 06:32 PM ET
When I was around 12, I decided to never have kids. When I met TSO,
-- PhotoHokieNC
Sep 04, 2025 at 06:06 PM ET
PhotoHokieNC
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09/04/25 06:06 PM ET
Parents have become wildly protective and seeing goblins in every corner.
-- ColoVT82
Sep 04, 2025 at 05:50 PM ET
ColoVT82
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09/04/25 05:50 PM ET
^^^whistling awfully close to the graveyard^^^ **
-- Burruss Writer
Sep 05, 2025 at 10:32 AM ET
Burruss Writer
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09/05/25 10:32 AM ET